"As you know, for some years we have been reflecting on and asking
ourselves how to transmit the faith to the new generations....this commitment is all the more important when we speak of
the education of kids and young people, who begin to hear these strange
ideas, these ideological colonizations that poison the soul and the
family: one must act against this. Two weeks ago a person, a very
Catholic, good, young man said to me that his kids were in first and
second grade and that in the evening he and his wife so often had to
're-catechize' the children....
"With your conjugal relationship, exercising paternity and maternity, you
give your life and are proof that it is possible to live the Gospel: it
is possible to live the Gospel and it renders one happy....I would like to speak of vocation, communion and
mission.
"The first word is vocation.....The Lord has chosen you to love one
another and transmit life. These two things are the vocation of
parents. This is a most beautiful call because it makes us be, in an
altogether special way, in the image and likeness of God. To become a
father and a mother truly means to be completely fulfilled, because it
is to become similar to God. This is not said in the newspapers, it does
not appear, but it is the truth of love. To become a father and a
mother makes us much more similar to God....
"Conjugal love is a good, which not even the greatest difficulties of
life are able to darken....
"Children look. They look so much and when they see that father and
mother love each other, the children grow in that atmosphere of love, of
happiness and also of security, because they are not afraid....They scrutinize you -- they don’t only look at you, they scrutinize you
-- to see if it’s possible to be good and if it’s true that with mutual
love every difficulty is surmounted....
"Parents have the
vocation to love one another. God has sowed in their heart the vocation
to love, because God is love. And this is your vocation as parents:
love. However, always think of the children, always think of the
children!
"The second word that comes to me, the second thought on which to reflect is communion. We
know that God is communion in the diversity of the Three Persons of the
Most Holy Trinity. One’s being parents is founded in the diversity of
being, as the Bible reminds, male and female. This is the 'first' and
most fundamental difference, constitutive of the human being. It is a
richness. Differences are riches. There are so many people who are
afraid of differences, but they are riches. And this difference is the 'first' and fundamental difference, constitutive of the human being.
When engaged couples come to be married, I like to say to him, after
speaking of the Gospel: 'But don’t forget that your vocation is to
render your wife more woman!'; and I say to her: 'your vocation is to
render your husband more man!' And thus they love one another, but they
love one another in the differences, more man and more woman. And this
is the craftsmanship of marriage, of the family, every day; to make the
other grow, to think of the other: the husband of the wife and the wife
of the husband. This is communion....
"I tell you that often couples come to Mass at Saint Martha’s who are observing their 50th, sometimes 60thwedding
anniversary. And they are happy; they smile....And in these old marriages, which are like
the good wine that becomes better when it is older, one sees this daily
work of man to make his wife more a woman and the wife to make her
husband more a man. They are not afraid of the differences!....
"It is very painful when a family lives a tension that can’t be
resolved, a break that they don’t succeed in healing. It is painful.
When there are the first signs of this, a father and a mother have the
duty to themselves and to their children to ask for help, to be
supported. Ask help first of all from God. Remember Jesus’ account, you
know it well: it is that Father who is able to take the first step
towards his two sons, one who left home and spent everything, the other
who remained at home ... The Lord will give you the strength to
understand that evil can be surmounted, that unity is greater than
conflict, that the wounds we have inflicted in one another can be
healed, in the name of a greater love, of that Love that He has called
you to live with the Sacrament of Marriage.
"And also now, when separation -- we must also speak of this -- seems
inevitable, know that the Church carries you in her heart....Never, never speak badly of the
other to the children! Never! -- because they are the first victims of
this fight and -- allow me the word -- also of this so often hatred
between the two. Children are sacred. Don’t wound them!....
"However, there is also the way of forgiveness. Forgive one another
and take up mutually your limitations, which will also help you to
understand and accept the fragilities and weaknesses of your children....
"And the gift of marriage, which is so beautiful, is also a mission. A mission that is very important.
"You are collaborators of the Holy Spirit who whispers to you Jesus’
words! Be so also for your children! Be missionaries of your children.
They will learn from your lips and from your life that to follow the
Lord gives enthusiasm, the desire to spend oneself for others, it always
gives hope, even in face of difficulties and sorrow, because one is
never alone, but always with the Lord and with brothers. And this is
important especially in the pre-adolescent age, when the search for God
becomes more conscious and the questions call for well-founded answers.
"And I don’t want to end without saying a word to grandparents, to our
grandparents....do grandparents,
who are the wisdom of a people, who are the memory of a people, who are
the wisdom of the family, have a worthy place? The grandparents who have
saved the faith in so many countries where it was prohibited to
practice religion and took children secretly to have them baptized, and
grandparents who taught prayers....They give us wisdom, prudence, they help us
so much. And when they get sick they ask us for so many sacrifices, it’s
true. Sometimes there isn’t another solution than to take them to a
rest home. But may it be the last, the last thing that is done.
Grandparents at home are a richness" (Pope Francis’ 6/14/15 Address to Rome Conference on Parents as Witnesses of the Beauty of Life).
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
Links Promoting the Sanctity of Human Life & Marriage/ Family/ Human Sexuality
- Abortifacients & Catholic Hospitals....Under no circumstances should Catholic hospitals jeopardize the Catholic witness by providing abortifacients or contraceptives.
- Ads in parish bulletins....this is an appeal for parishes to forego ads for providers of abortifacients and contraceptives.
- AFA (Tell "AMA: Taxpayers should [NOT] subsidize trans reproductive surgeries")
- C-Fam
- Catholic Vote.org
- Children of God for Life
- Family Policy Alliance
- Mass Resistance (The [misleadingly named] Equality Act is back before Congress & must be stopped)
- NJ Family Policy Center (Petition to Attorney General Matt Platkin)
- NJ Right to LIfe
- PA Family
- Pa Pro Life (Oppose Pa HB 1888)
- Pa Pro-Life Federation
- President Joe Biden Has Turned a Blind Eye to the Killing of Christians in Nigeria. Sign the Petition Now.
- Tell your bishop to prohibit the “blessing” of sinful unions in your diocese
- USCCB (re: Child Welfare Provider Inclusion Act)
- USCCB (re: Equality Act)
- USCCB (re: Letters to Pharmaceutical Companies ["to protest the use of abortion-derived cell lines and advocate for the development of vaccines with no connection to abortion."])
No comments:
Post a Comment